Thursday, April 3, 2008

Ye Luv Shuv Kya Hain???

This is possibly one of the best fwd mails i have received till now ... Anyone who reads this will appreciate am sure .... All thanks to the original author .... Do comment if u like it ....

I once had a friend who grew to be very close to me. Once when we were sitting at the edge of a swimming pool,
she filled the palm of her hand with some water and held it before me,
and said this: "You see this water carefully contained on my hand? It symbolizes Love." This was how I saw it.

As long as you keep your hand caringly open and allow it to remain there, it will always be there. However, if you attempt to close your fingers round it and try to posses it, it will spill through the first cracks it finds. This is the greatest mistake that people do when they meet love...they try to posses it, they demand, they expect... and just like the water spilling out of your hand, love will retrieve from you.

For love is meant to be free, you cannot change its nature. If there are people you love,
allow them to be free beings. Give and don't expect. Advise, but don't order. Ask, but never demand. It might sound simple, but it is a lesson that may take a lifetime to truly practice.

It is the secret to true love.

To truly practice it, you must sincerely feel no expectations from those whom you love, and yet an unconditional caring."

Passing thought... Life is not measured by the number of breaths we take; but by the moments that take our breath away..... Life is beautiful!!!

6 comments:

Unknown said...

A penny for your thoughts,adjusted for inflation of course!!!

These are the simple thoughts that everyone knows but no one cares to remember and then curse their fate.

Kudos to you,Computer-Wizard Debankar for reminding us the life's basic facts.

Will be waiting for more regular updates from this pint sized powerhouse!!!

Debankar said...

as usual atanu ... u r exhaggerating... man, wat will ppl think of me!

happy said...

read somewher.........To love is to suffer. To avoid suffering one must not love. But then one suffers from not loving. Therefore to love is to suffer, not to love is to suffer. To suffer is to suffer. To be happy is to love. To be happy then is to suffer. But suffering makes one unhappy. Therefore, to be unhappy one must love, or love to suffer, or suffer from too much happiness. I hope you're getting this down."
nice work!!hope to read more frm ur side soon

shwetha said...

yes ... life s very beautiful and it is love that makes it so beautiful ... it s love that keeps every human going ....

n the facts in the article r those that everyone knows but forgets ... a real eye opener !

great one debankar ! n one suggestion buddy ! do write more than one post a month !

Lipsa said...

shit yaar!!! i loved ur post!!!!!!

Paarul Bansal said...

when is ur first book releasing? i wana be the first customer!!!